When "I Don't Know Isn't Enough"
When is it ever enough? As we thread through life, we are continually finding answers to everything. Somehow this is the quest that I am always in. I want to understand people. The people that I interact with the most. My husband in particular.
According to him, it seems pushing the right buttons is my forte. I know where to drive him on the edge. The thing is, I feel he says this but his face says otherwise. They do not coincide. It drives me to the conclusion that he is not telling the truth. The truth of how he really feels. To protect me in the process? But it's just like lying in the sense. Subtle.
Generally, men really have this difficulty in expressing how they feel. Again, simply because Men are from Mars?--- if I have to quote John Gray's famous bestseller? But I cannot simply accept this. I simply can't. I am adamant, yes. But I just believe that men can simply transcend through this. What are they afraid of in the first place? We are past the getting-to-know stage right? I just feel that there is simply more to it every time. This is one source of our argument, you know.
When is it ever enough? As we thread through life, we are continually finding answers to everything. Somehow this is the quest that I am always in. I want to understand people. The people that I interact with the most. My husband in particular.
According to him, it seems pushing the right buttons is my forte. I know where to drive him on the edge. The thing is, I feel he says this but his face says otherwise. They do not coincide. It drives me to the conclusion that he is not telling the truth. The truth of how he really feels. To protect me in the process? But it's just like lying in the sense. Subtle.
Generally, men really have this difficulty in expressing how they feel. Again, simply because Men are from Mars?--- if I have to quote John Gray's famous bestseller? But I cannot simply accept this. I simply can't. I am adamant, yes. But I just believe that men can simply transcend through this. What are they afraid of in the first place? We are past the getting-to-know stage right? I just feel that there is simply more to it every time. This is one source of our argument, you know.
When "I don't know" just don't cut it. When "I don't know" isn't enough.
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